Anyone that is trying to learn more about the best San Francisco gay, lesbian, and trans bars and nightclubs near you will definitely do so if they read this page. We will also be diving deep into subjects like mixed clubs, trans bars, drag shows and more in this local LGBT nightlife guide.
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There are even a few San Francisco gay pride events that also deserve a mention. And since most of us are addicted to our cell phones it would be pretty weird for us to leave out the best LGBT dating sites.
We don’t all enjoy doing things the same way so we are trying to cover all the bases so that you can go with the one that sounds best for your needs and desires. Fortunately the lesbian, trans, and gay bars in your area are no longer your only way to make this happen.
By the way we have covered tons of cities around the Western US if you want to learn about some other towns, including Oakland right across the bay.
Best LGBT Bars & Clubs In San Francisco
The best San Francisco gay, lesbian, and mixed LGBT bars and nightclubs would be:
- The Cafe at 2369 Market St
- Toad Hall at 4146 18th St
- AsiaSF at 201 9th St
- The Edge at 4149 18th St
- The Mix at 4086 18th St
- Midnight Sun at 4067 18th St
- Last Call at 18th St
- Hi Tops at 2247 Market St
- Beaux at 2344 Market St
- Oasis at 298 11th St
- Powerhouse 1347 Folsom St
- Twin Peaks Tavern at 401 Castro St
- Jolene’s Bar at 2700 16th St
- San Francisco Eagle Bar at 398 12th St
- OMG at 43 6th St
- Lookout at 3600 16th St
Best Gay Bars & Clubs
If you are looking for gay bars and clubs in San Francisco for men to meet men the above list is full of opportunities. We used to live in a world where things were far less inclusive, but these days most venues around Castro have become more LGBT friendly instead of being strictly gay bars near you.
Best Lesbian Bars & Clubs in San Francisco
Many would consider Jolene’s to be the best local lesbian bar in San Francisco, but with that said things are so inclusive these days that you can head to many spots in the Castro gayborhood and have success. Q Bar used to be a great option for women to meet women in your area but unfortunately we heard it closed.
Drag Shows & Trans Bars
While these may not exactly be trans bars in San Francisco you can find drag shows that may help you locate ts near you at:
- RPDR M&M Munros at Midnight Sun on Mondays
- The Hot Box Drag Show at Aunt Charlie’s on Fridays & Saturdays
- Drag Shows at Daytime Realness
- Drag Shows at Hamburger Mary’s
- Drag Shows at Oasis
- Drag Shows at SF Eagle Bar
- Drag Shows at OMG
We know the scene here pretty well if we may say so, but we cover way too many cities to have a more intimate knowledge on all of them than the local experts. Our goal is to keep our lists as up to date as possible but we need your help to do so.
It would be great if you could use the comments section to let us know if you notice anything dated.
Many of these gay or lesbian bars and clubs can be found in the LGBT nightlife area of the Castro District. This world famous gayborhood should offer all you need and more.
We have also written posts on:
- All Things LGBT in San Jose
- All Things LGBT in Portland
- All Things LGBT in Los Angeles
- All Things LGBT in Seattle
Weekly, Monthly & Pride Events
Here are some of the best LGBT events that occur on a weekly or monthly basis:
- VAMP Mondays at Beaux
- Cockshot Tuesday at Beaux
- Castro Karaoke at Midnight Sun on Wednesdays
- Uhaul SF at Jolene’s Bar every Friday
And there are plenty of pride events plus other LGBT events throughout the year like:
- San Francisco’s Pride Festival
- Castro Street Fair on the first weekend in October
- Up Your Alley Street Fair in July
- Folsom Street Fair in September
- Frameline43 – The King of Queer Film Festivals
- Leather Walk
Best LGBT Dating Sites
Many of our younger readers may not realize that trying to find other LGBT people near you for dating or hook ups was a lot more work than it is now. Gay or lesbian bars in your area were pretty much your only choice, but thankfully that is no longer the case.
We have no idea what your current status is, and frankly it doesn’t matter, but we are pretty sure that there are some people reading this who may not want to have their photos taken at a gay bar and posted on social media. For the past fifteen years the biggest hook up site on the planet has been Adult Friend Finder and that won’t be changing any time soon.
They actually have a wide variety of sites in their network which some may not know. Their main site to use to find local gay men to hook up with is Men Nation and there are probably more guys using it then you would expect.
Lesbian Personals is where to go to find hot lesbian women in your area to hook up with. Those who are bi-sexual and enjoy all the colors of the rainbow should just go with Adult Friend Finder.
It combines all of the users on all the sites across their network which are not only straight and LGBT but also include swingers and numerous types of kinks and fetishes. So if you want fast m4m hook ups with hot guys use Men Nation, and for f4f hook ups use Lesbian Personals.
MyTransgenderDate is the last site we want to tell you about and it is the biggest transgender dating site on the planet. Trans dating in San Francisco has never been more possible than it is right now as more ts near you are living the life they want to live.
The local LGBT nightlife has just been covered in full detail. You read all about mixed, gay, or lesbian bars and clubs in San Francisco plus drag shows to party with trans and all sorts of LGBT dating sites plus the Castro gayborhood. We hope you make the most of the information at hand.