Best Gay & Lesbian Bars In Tulsa (LGBT Nightlife Guide)

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If you want to learn more about the best gay and lesbian bars or clubs in Tulsa you are in the right place. We will also be diving into topics like mixed clubs, trans bars, drag shows, the Brady Heights gayborhood and plenty more in this local LGBT nightlife guide.

There are a couple of annual and more frequent pride events that will also be getting a shout out. And in this cell phone era it would be kind of weird for us to leave out the best LGBT dating sites for your area.

We know that you all have your own way of doing things so we will mention as many options as possible and then let you choose your own adventure. You can look through a huge list of our North American LGBT nightlife guides right here.

Best LGBT Bars & Clubs In Tulsa

Let’s kick this off with a list of the best mixed LGBT bars and nightclubs in Tulsa:

Best Gay Bars & Clubs

If you are looking for gay bars and clubs in Tulsa for men to meet men you can go off that main list we just posted. A decade or more ago things were far less inclusive, but currently most venues have become more LGBT friendly instead of strictly gay bars.

Don’t worry, men can meet men at plenty of spots around town including many nightclubs that aren’t known as gay hot spots in your area.

Best Lesbian Bars & Clubs in Tulsa

Along those same lines we are not aware of any lesbian bars in Tulsa for women to meet women. All you can do is try at the local mixed LGBT venues or visit the most popular nightclubs in the city and hope for the best.

Drag Shows & Trans Bars

While these may not exactly be trans bars in Tulsa you can find drag shows that may help you locate ts near you at:

  • Sunday Showcase at Club Majestic
  • Latin Infusion at Club Majestic on the first Friday of every month
  • The Eagle

Our goal is to always keep these lists fresh but we cover so many cities around the world that perfection is unlikely. We know the scene here pretty well, but not as well as the local experts and things can change quick.

If you happen to notice anything out of date or if we left some place off that is a can’t miss please use the comments to let us know. Also, if you think any venues should be listed as solely places for men to meet men or women to meet women fill us in.

The main gay area is Brady Heights and you can find just about everything you need in that gayborhood. You can read more of our posts on cities near here like:

Weekly, Monthly, & Pride Events

Throw Down at Club Majestic on Thursday Night is the biggest weekly LGBT event in the city. Tulsa Pride is the biggest annual event and is held every year in June.

Best LGBT Dating Sites

It used to be that if you wanted to find other LGBT people near you for dating or hook ups going to gay and lesbian bars were pretty much the only choice you had. Fortunately that isn’t the case anymore, and now we want to tell you about some of our favorite options.

It is pretty safe to guess that many reading this have seen Adult Friend Finder links online before. It is by far the biggest hook up site on the planet and has been for nearly two decades.

Their main site for finding gay men near you to hook up with is Men Nation and you might be surprised at how many guys use it in big towns like this. The ladies will be better off on Lesbian Personals, they aren’t trying to hide what they are all about with that name.

Bi-sexuals who like to hook up with all varieties can go with Adult Friend Finder. It combines all the users on their numerous sites which are not only straight and LGBT but also include swingers and other kinky people.

So if you want local m4m hook ups use Men Nation, and for f4f hook ups use Lesbian Personals. Some reading this might also be a bit curious about the world’s top transgender dating site, MyTransgenderDate. More ts near you then ever before are finally comfortable living the life they want to live which makes trans dating in Tulsa a legit option these days.

At this point we have filled you in on the Tulsa LGBT nightlife as best as we know how. You learned all about mixed, gay, or lesbian bars and clubs in your area plus drag shows to party with trans and all sorts of LGBT dating sites. We hope you make the most of the information at hand.

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4 thoughts on “Best Gay & Lesbian Bars In Tulsa (LGBT Nightlife Guide)”

  1. Does Tulsa NOT have a transgender’only’, all people of course welcome ..but FOCUSED ON AND FOR TRANSGENDERS… Im looking for a transgender woman, not a guy in drag or lesbian.Not a settling for or this is as close… TRANSGENDER!!!

    • We wish, but at this time we don’t know of any. If something pops up we will update the post for sure, and if you hear of anything new please come back and let us know.


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