Last updated on September 18th, 2020
If you are trying to locate the best gay and lesbian bars or clubs in Oklahoma City we have all the info you need right here. This LGBT nightlife guide will also cover things like mixed clubs, trans bars, drag shows, the main queer area of town and more!
On top of that the best LGBT dating sites will be mentioned, particularly some sites for those who are more interested in hooking up than getting too deep into a serious relationship at the moment. Plus we will mention all of the best LGBT pride events and meet ups we know about in this city.
Not all of you will be interested in going out to a lesbian or gay bar or nightclub to try and meet people near you so we will try to cover all the bases so that you can pick out which option you prefer.
Best LGBT Bars & Clubs In Oklahoma City
Let’s start this off with a list of the best mixed LGBT bars and nightclubs in Oklahoma City:
- Phoenix Rising at 2120 NW 39th St
- The Wreckroom at 2127 NW 39th St
- Alibi’s at 1200 N Pennsylvania Ave
- Angles at 2117 NW 39th St
- Tramps Patio at 2201 NW 39th St
- HiLo Club at 1221 NW 50th St
- Partners at 805 NW 36th St
- Frankie’s at 2807 NW 36th St
- Apothecary 39 at 2125 NW 39th St
- The Boom at 2218 NW 39th St
- The Copa at 2200 NW 40th St
Best Gay Bars & Clubs
These days gay bars and clubs in Oklahoma City for men to meet men are becoming more like mixed LGBT hot spots. You can find gay men near you at any of the bars we listed above.
Best Lesbian Bars & Clubs in Oklahoma City
We are not aware of any purely lesbian bars for women to meet women in OKC, though Phoenix Rising, Angles and Partners would probably be your best options.
Drag Shows & Trans Bars
We aren’t really to the point of having full on trans bars in Oklahoma City, but you can find drag shows that may help you locate ts near you at:
- Sister Bingo at Apothecary 39 on Second Friday of every month!
- Drag Me To Bingo at Partners on Sundays
- Drag Bingo at The Boom
You can also find some shows at Frankie’s. We tried our best to differentiate between strictly gay bars and mixed LGBT bars, but we won’t claim that we did a perfect job of it. If you disagree, if any of the venues we have listed have closed, or if any new LGBT hot spots have opened up be sure to let us know in the comments below so that our lists can be as correct and up to date as possible.
Many of these gay or lesbian bars and clubs can be found in the LGBT nightlife area of 39th Street and Penn. Go out in that part of town and you will be able to check out the various venues and find out the right spots for your personal tastes.
Some of you may also be interested in:
- LGBT Nightlife in Dallas
- LGBT Nightlife in Tulsa
- LGBT Nightlife in Kansas City
- LGBT Nightlife in Denver
- LGBT Nightlife in San Antonio
Weekly, Monthly, & Pride Events
Here are some of the best LGBT events that occur on a weekly or monthly basis:
- Trashy Thursdays! at The Boom
- Trivia Night at The Boom on Tuesdays
- The TGIF Show at The Boom
- Fuzzy Friday at Apothecary 39 on last Friday of the month
- Ladies Day at Partners on Tuesday
- Bear Bust at Partners on Thursdays
- Sooners Bears Monthly Mixer at Partners on 2nd Fridays
And then there is the Oklahoma City Pride Festival & Parade held every June.
Best LGBT Dating Sites
We know that going out to an LGBT bar or club is not for everyone. We don’t all enjoy the party scene, and these days many of us have become more and more introverted which is totally understandable.
Plus not everyone is fully ‘out’ at the moment and may not necessarily want to be spotted and get posted about on social media. Whatever your reasons or motivations are LGBT dating sites are a great way to meet people near you without having to get all dressed up and head to a gay or lesbian bar to do so.
The first sites we want to mention are mainly geared towards casual sex, they aren’t exactly dating sites. As the divorce rates keep climbing lots of people are enjoying the single life and aren’t looking for any commitment at the moment.
Men Nation is a really good gay dating site for hook ups, and if you want to hook up with gay guys in Oklahoma City you should definitely take a look. Lesbian Personals is a really cool lesbian hook up site, and they are both run by Adult Friend Finder. You have probably seen AFF ads around the web, probably on porn, sex, or other adult sites.
If you are gay and looking for guys near you to hook up with try Men Nation, if you are a lesbian and want to find lesbian girls in Oklahoma City to hook up then Lesbian Personals is your spot, and if you are bi try Adult Friend Finder. One day a serious relationship might interest you, but until then we all have needs.
These sites are a nice and discreet way for you to get it in without visiting the LGBT bars, clubs, and nightlife. We also should tell you about the world’s top transgender dating site, MyTransgenderDate. Trans dating in Oklahoma City is trending upwards at a rapid rate as more ts near you are finally comfortable living the life they want to live.
Alright then, we have told you all about the Oklahoma City LGBT nightlife as best as we can. You know where to go to find mixed, gay, or lesbian bars and clubs plus drag shows to party with trans and all sorts of LGBT dating sites. We hope you make the most of the information at hand.